http://searchsuccess.net/images/great-photography/ricky-turrell-baby-photography-new-born-baby-c-400w.jpgHow babies are manifested!
Cindy asked me how to get pregnant…the logistics of that aside, as I am SURE she knows the birds and the bees of it, there are many actions that you can take to increase your alignment with becoming pregnant. Some of them are spiritual and others physical, so lets begin in the heavier vibrations of the physical plane with a little background.
THE PHYSICAL SIDE OF GETTING PREGNANT
While overall birthrates in the world are going up, due to increased populations, the rate of conception in industrialized nations has dropped. Part of that is due to women waiting longer to have their first child, but another part of it is due to the use of birth control pills when “choosing” a mate and the hyper-hygienic world we are living in.
Artificial hormones suppress a woman’s natural cycles and rhythms of fertility, and also decreases her output of pheromones. Pheromones are these very cool chemical attractants that the body puts out in order to attract the opposite sex. Both sexes put out these pheromones, and when a woman is at her most fertile, she is pumping these out into the environment in order to attract a mate. If a woman is on artificial hormones, she is sending out signals that indicate she is “pregnant” and thus attracts a mate that will not be threatening to that possible unborn fetus. In primitive times, and in the animal world, most males would kill any offspring that they were not sure was theirs. This ofcourse is no longer the case for humans, but our reproductive system is slow to evolve, and even slower to come into alignment with artificial hormones.
That said, after a certain period of being free of artificial hormones, the body begins to produce much stronger attractants during the fertile periods, and the male will sense these IF they are allowed to flow freely—and come into alignment with his own fertility.
IF a woman (and a man for that matter) wash constantly and wear perfumes and use scented body washes, the pheromones do not accumulate and do not send out their messages to the opposite sex. Pheromones are for physical bonding—and to prepare for reproduction—and if your body cant sense them because they have been “cleaned” away, your body isn’t going to react as it should.
Another major issue today is that many women and some men shave or completely remove all pubic hair. The pubic hair, while being a form of dry lubrication for the pubis, and protecting the external genitalia, it is also a collection site for pheromones and a focuser of sexual-chemical stimulation for the opposite sex. The opposite sex is also visually stimulated by the appearance of a mature female. If the female does not look mature, the male will not respond in a fertile way as often.
So, if you wish to get pregnant, I would suggest that you and your partner sleep naked and NOT change your sheets for a few weeks—you want to get those sheets full of your pheromones—you want to smell his side of the bed, and have him smell your side of the bed—you should also grow out all pubic hair, and have him do the same. Up to and during your fertile period (as determined either through charting your cycle, using your vaginal discharge as an indicator, using your basal temperature or an ovulation predictor kit) you should wash infrequently or not at all. Use NO deodorant or antiperspirant and no perfumed body products at all. Have your partner do the same. If you must wash, you can sponge bath your privates with plain water and simple natural soap, but try to keep your body and its pheromones as natural as possible. I know it may sound “gross” but this is the way nature intended for you to be in order for your reproductive system to work at its best. Once you know you have ovulated, you can go back to washing, so just put up with it for a short period, and know you are doing your best for the situation.
Certain foods should be avoided, such as ice cream and heavy dairy—as these make the pelvis cold---Hot baths and showers for the male should also be avoided, and tight fitting underwear, which draw the testicles too close to the body and decrease sperm count. Increase the males intake of zinc (50mg a day) in order to stimulate sperm production, and increase the females intake of b vitamins—especially folic acid…It’s a good idea to get a well formulated prenatal vitamin and start taking it, along with essential fatty acids, including DHA before becoming pregnant, as these are supplements that support a healthy pregnancy.
THE VIBRATION OF ATTRACTION IN PREGNANCY….
We know from our studies on the law of attraction that we get what we think about. If you are thinking about a subject, but have resistance to it, or feel that it is taking too long to show up, you push it away from yourself. This can be compounded by any doubts you have about your possible fertility and any information given to you by well meaning doctors and friends.
I know many women who thought they could never get pregnant, who have had successful pregnancies after the DROPPED their desire and stopped TRYING. In fact, I had one friend who was told that her endometrial scarring was so bad, she would never have kids, only to find herself pregnant while focused on the planning of her wedding. Another friend had invitro and had a healthy baby only to find herself pregnant a few months later with another baby because she didn’t use birth control! There are many cases of dropping the oars and getting into alignment with that and then the manifestation flows in on the storks wings!
When I decided that I wanted to have a baby, I started thinking about the little soul that would be attracted to ME as a mother—I thought about how I would BE as a mother, and I envisioned holding my lovely baby and bonding with it—I visualized and day dreamed about as many scenarios as I could because it FELT GOOD….i didn’t think about the HOW—I only thought about the manifestation.
Both times, I caught pregnant right away. I would suggest you forget about trying—and get into alignment with BEING the wonderful mother that you know you are—and bonding with your husband in a sexual and spiritual way—and start ENJOYING that time you have together and how as a couple, you are attracting the perfect little soul to share in your family. See what feels good about being a mom—see what feels good about being parents—really get clear on that….
Then, as your rockets of desire are shot out—know that the universe has already answered your prayer—and has aligned a little one up with you—from your own soul group—and start talking to that spirit—start telling it you love it—start your relationship with it as if it were really here—sing it lullabies at night—tell it where you will take it, what you will dress it in—how its grandma will love it! Make that heart bond STRONG…and reel that baby in with it!
Additionally, focus on whatever feels GOOD to you—and follow your joy—release all worry—and know that you are at the perfect place and the universe is unfolding before you exactly as YOU desire it to…
HUGS HOT MAMMA!!!
Labels: law of attraction, pregnancy, relationships, soul groups
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