Co-creation....

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Many hands and hearts make light work of co-creation!

Abraham has often said, you cannot create in anothers experience...and i think they say that so folks will not focus on changing others...as in, well, you might want to drop the if they change i will love them bit...it never works...

but i do strongly believe that my family is a wonderful team...and while we have individual desires and shoot off individual rockets of desire--we have always focused on the soul cluster aspect of our family--while allowing personal freedom, privacy and support for all individual endeavors...

That said--i have long settled into and been comfortable with the idea that people give me money to be who i am--i havent worked at a paying job in over 15 years, and still i am tremendously abundant...

This past february, due to some extreme desires on the parts of all family members, my beloved vibrated out of a very contrasty work situation, and the universe has blessed us with abundance for an entire year and then some...we have been having the time of our lives, traveling--enjoying each others company--just being together and spontaneously deciding to do things...its been such sheer joy--and as the school year ends and my kids have more time-we are looking forward to more suprises and wonderous adventures provided by the universe--because this is what we focus on...

every morning, when we can--we all climb into our huge feather bed--cat included and we hug--and cuddle--all four of us--and then, we hold hands and we set intentions with the universe...dear lord and goddess, dear universe, we thank you for our lives and all that you have given us--we know that it is through your blessings and your love that we can accomplish anything we desire--and then we talk on what we wish to focus on for the day--for the week--for our lives--abundance, financial freedom, health, happiness, adventures, harmony, love, life etc...and more specifics, like great tickets to see the red sox, the kids doing awesome on their finals--me facilitiating a ton of girl scout things, etc...

and it feel so very good--and we know that through the four of us--we focus our intentions on co-creating an amazing life together...

and we know the universe will always support us--and it is so...because law of attraction says it is so--we live a happy lovely life...

and others would have us focus on what is--and sometimes some of us do focus on what is--and what is in the future--and tell a story that is not to the liking of all of us--and so, i sit here, and i will tell the story of our co-creation that would bring us all great joy--and i ask the universe for all our inner beings to converse--and to come into alignment with our joint desires...

We want to spend loving time together freely--whenever we wish to share time--the time is there--and it is good

we want to share financial freedom together--and know that the unverse will always provide us with all we need and more to do all the things we wish to do...abundaceis ours and comes from many avenues...we need do nothing but come into alignment with abundance and with great joy feel it fill us up.

we want to share health and happiness and harmony together---because we love each other and we know we can shine

we want to share adventures and surprises and thrills together, because it is what we love to do together--

we want to be able to take the time we need alone for each other--and bless that time apart as recharging and joyous private time...filled with individual freedom and bliss...we want to support each being in our family team in their individual pursuits and goals....

we want to travel together happily...and see new places and meet wonderful new people...because it is what we love

we want all of us to be doing things that they love--doing things that are engaging, exciting, fulfilling and enjoyable, because life can be that way--and the universe supports us in that desire..

and so...it is

The TRUTH is always about ME!!!

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What is your truth whispering to you?

Our emotional guidance system is ALWAYS evaluating what we are thinking and comparing it to our personal manifesto (as alex so eloquently put it) that our inner being is vibrating...

and so--when you think a thought and you are feeling GOOD that thought is part of your truth...it is true for you in the physical and it is true for you in the non-physical--and it is a match and it FEELS great and you are at that point in your creative power--your valve is open, your cork is floating, your boat is facing downstream and all is well...

but...

if you are thinking a thought that is NOT in alignment with who you really are--and you are feeling bad--your emotional guidance system will give you a feeling on the scale that shows you EXACTLY how far away you are from alignment with your source--and you see that what you are thinking is NOT your truth...

so, example...

I got dressed this morning--after vibrating that i was a red hot momma and that i had extreme power and magnetism and i was on fire...i put on a pair of capris and a cute top and looked in the mirror with my hair piled willy nilly on my head, curls cascading down and a beautiful crystal on my neck...and i looked and FELT wonderful because my thoughts about ME and my inner beings KNOWING who i really am were in complete alignment...and so, i trotted off to church with my kids--which i use as a time to meditate and be grateful for the universe and also to see my mother...which she loves and i am in alignment wiht that==so its all good.

And i sat down next to her, and i guess the top i chose was not to her liking because she looked at my cleavage and made a face..and i immediately felt badly and my hand went to my breasts and i pulled up the edge of the fabric...i caught myself feeling bad--and i then evaluated the situation...

I know who i am--i dont give a rip what anyone else thinks of me--i know i look good and i was dressing for ME and who i really am--my inner being is in complete alignment with that...but i have old habits and as a child, looked to my mother for approval--and that always felt badly--

why?

because my inner being knows i dont need anyone elses approval to be who i really am--and so, in looking to and reacting to my mother so she can be comfortable with ME, i was "dishonoring" myself and that felt bad...

so...

i took a deep breath--and i focused on being in alignment with my mother and the fun part of her spirit...i focused on her accepting me as i was, and me being ok to show her who i am...

do you know--in less than five minutes, my mother got the giggles...she was also whispering to me in the middle of the sermon and telling silly things to make me laugh and complaining about how long the sermon was and how she wasnt getting anything out of it and how she would rather be out living the day...

we even held hands...

so, i listened to myself--realigned based on the complete knowing that whenever i feel badly its because i am thinking a thought that is not my truth--and i realigned myself and my thoughts to be MY TRUTH with the full knowledge that it is MY thoughts, MY vibration and MY decision to in any given moment powerfully turn my boat around and get back to being ME...

Having your cake...and eating it too!

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Oh the JOY of it! YUMMMMY!

A dear friend asked about the fact that abraham says you have to align with eating something and then, in that feeling of joy it is good for you--but if you dont align with it, it can be bad for you--some of what is said is confusing, and so, she wanted to discuss it--here is what i said...

this is an extremely interesting topic...i will tell you--there were times in my life when i was able to eat whatever i wanted--because i was very active, and i had a high metabolism...and then, i succumbed to the information of REALITY---this is good, this is bad, this is fattening--if you drink too much of this you will be fat, etc. etc...oh, and the belief that as we age, or when we have babies our metabolism will decrease...

and ofcourse, i am living with the results of those beliefs now...and i have spent a lot of time talking with my soul sister about changing those beliefs to be a bit more like what a successfully healthy and slim aber is talking about...aligning with my choices...

but this morning--i sat at a diner with my husband and kids and wanted this delicious omlette and a few pancakes==and all of a sudden i thought--this will make me fat--and that felt bad because i knew in my soul that that didnt have to be my truth--and then i had this AHA moment because two women had sat at the next table and both were downing stacks of pancakes and both were skinny as rails...and i thought--wow--if it is possible for them to eat that, and they were doing so happily--not picking at it, but devouring them...then it is also possible for me...

and i sent off a conscious rocket of desire--I LOVE FOOD--i wish to always enjoy and find pleasure in food...i want to really indulge my senses in this lovely food--and i want to always be in alignment with that--i know i have shot off tons of rockets of desire for a healthy slim body--and i know that is in my vibrational escrow--i have seen that body numerous times, and it has is an amazing body--its still MY body--it is just different in that it is a body that can enjoy all foods whenever and where ever i want and still maintain its fitness...

and so, abe has said in the past that if you SEE that chocolate cake and you WANT it and you say NO< src="http://abetalk.com/images/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile">

What a feeling!!!!

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Get Fired up every day, by simply ASKING FOR IT!!!

A dear friend of mine just got back from the meditteranean abraham cruise--what a wonderful thing! He really enjoyed himself and brought back the message that the KEY to all this is not asking for things, or even experiences, its asking for the essence of FEELINGS and through that life is a joy--life will bring you what you are asking for if you align with that essence...here's my response to that!!!!


wow--aint it GREAT to finally truly REALLY get what its all about...

FEELINGS!!! i remember years ago, when i really got this--i got it out of the buddist teaching of walking meditation--of meditation in the NOW-also called mindfulness-not of focusing away from the mind or body--but focusing on EACH and every movement of the body in joy--and at first it was a very busy mental exercise...oh, i am moving my arm--this muscle is contracting--that muscle is relaxing--i am doing this--

and then i read this lovely little buddist poem by thic nhat hahn who is an amazingly abeing buddist monk...

breath in...smile at the body
breath out. feel the body
breath in...joyful moment
breath out...perfect moment...

and i started doing that meditation in my walking meditation and all of a sudden--i can FEEL JOY no matter what i am doing--just the act of breathing gives me joy--just the act of moving was joyous--it didnt matter what i was doing, how much money i had, how pretty i was or whether i was in love--if i focused in the now moment on joy--anything brought happiness...

this asking for the essence of a feeling is wonderful--today--i am asking for the essence of fun and adventure--i ask for that alot--thats the essence that i absolutely adore--its a very childlike essence--a very exciting essence--and a very much surprising essence--you never know what is gonna happen! we are gonna go to twighlight racing at belmont--and i am gonna win whoo hooo! i am good with the ponies!

hugs you guys--enjoy the feeling!!!

a little contrast...

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Without the dark, there can be no light....

ARE YOU ENJOYING THE CONTRAST????

abe has said this over and over...

yes...the Universe is based on contrast, choice, contrast, choice...contrast can be viewed as suffering, challenging, something to be worked against...or it can be viewed simply as a comparative term--how things differ...a helpful situation that leads to more refined focus.

in a world, in a reality, in a universe where WE KNOW all is well--and we get to come back over and over and over again--and there is NO DEATH, and we are always PERFECT, expanding eternal beings who SEEK variety in life experiences...

yes...contrast is necessary...

or you would be bored--and you would cease to desire--and when you cease to desire--cease to get enjoyment and evolution out of life...its transition time...

Without the contrast, there can be no quantifying joy....

the NOW moment...

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Do YOU know what time it is??? IT's NOW!!!

i was just thinking about this...

abraham has often said--that your ONLY point of POWER--your own point of VIBRATIONAL energy vortex is in the NOW MOMENT...

so???????

whats with waiting???

there is NO waiting in the now moment?


there is ONLY the now moment!!!

WOW!!!!

enjoying the joy in the NOW moment!!!! no before--cause i have no power there--its ONLY reminiscing...

no tomorrow--cause i have no power there--its PURE conjecture...

but NOW...WOW-===i got the POWER--do do do do!!! I got the POWER...do do do do--

and it WICKED MAD ROCKS!!!!

Enjoy the JOY in the now....making anticipation a treat!

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OH HOW DELICIOUS!!!!

Someone recently asked me about waiting on a manifestation to occur--and how it so frustrated them when they could SEE the manifestation coming together, but it was not there yet...and they realized that they had to do something to make it happen faster, or make the waiting time more pleasant because they had been feeling pretty badly, even though they KNEW they have been magnificent creators, and they were seeing a big manifestation coming down the pike...
This is what i said...

Dont focus on the waiting, because that will only give you more waiting--completely change your focus and almost ignore the manifestation, if waiting cannot be comfortable for you--focus on the JOY--of each individual moment...

just on the joy IN THE NOW...

I am going to give you an analogy...

you order a pizza and you KNOW its coming...

you are waiting--and you are hungry and you are anticipating how its going to taste--unless you are STARVING literally--this period of waiting can be delicious because it is filled with expectation and happy thoughts about a pizza...that YOU KNOW is coming...

but, if you ordered that pizza...and then kept thinking to yourself--god, i hope they dont screw up my order...and forget to put the pizza in--sometimes that has happened tome, andi dont like it--or i hope they dont burn the pizza--i hate it when its over done...or i hope that they dont mess it up and put ancovies on it--cause that will suck--what is taking so long? its only a pizza???


now--both situations, you are waiting for a pizza...in one, you are enjoying the wait--and drawing that pizza to yourself--which you KNOW is coming...

in the other situaiton--you are pushing against that pizza...and it is something that 10 minutes ago was flour dough, cheese, sauce...NOT a pizza--but because YOU asked for a pizza, the universe conspired to use someone and someones facilities to make you that pizza...and here you are pushing against i.t--the .universe do.esnt hear NOT it only hears the tail enders...and so, if you are feeling badly about waiting--or thinking in a worried way while waiting--you confuse the universe, that loves you so much it wants to give you exactly what you want...

a nice pizza--or money in the bank--or a nice red shiny car....

its always been

ask--knowing it is given
allow--knowing it is coming...

:) enjoy--in the now moment....because THAT is all that matters...the things never matter--the JOY is all that matters!

challenges...to improve..or do we just change focus?

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Raise your hand if you wanna raise your energy!

A dear friend told me about an Abraham challenge that is listed on YOUTUBE where you follow along and focus on certain things every day in order to "improve" your vibration or your life overall...she said she didnt like the idea of a "challenge" because it made her feel like someone was either judging her, or giving her a directive and that didnt feel right to her--so, she decided to make her next 100 days into days of awareness and not so much a challenge, and i love that--my other dear friend was focusing on finding JOY in may...you can find her great stuff at www.onthejoypath.com. Seems that a lot of people feel the need for a spring cleaning, or a rededication to the law of attraction principles and especially the teachings of abraham...

I love this...what i love is that each person can use the teachings of abraham to formulate the way that THEY want to grow, and vibe up the individual areas that are most important to them!

see? with abe its not==this has to change for you to be good--its WHAT do you want in your life that will bring you the most joy?

awesome...

I will definitely be following along a similar path--I am a freedom seeking being too, and give me a calendar and a schedule and i say--noooooo wayyy! lol

so, i will check in with you all when my vibe feels like it~!

what i love to focus on daily is:

Seeing divine love all around me...in the people i meet, through my own vibration, through nature, the lovely beasts...divine love is permeating all we see, it is the true matrix...

Seeing divine abundance all around me...I am a beloved child of the universe--and i am stuck right in the center of potential....i can see, daily, through the driftwood that flows by me on my river, that anything i want can be mine, from a position of sincere gratitude and a longing for more...its such a joy.

Seeing divine wellbeing abound...in my self, in my family, in all the people i come into contact with...wellbeing is the way--every cell in my body is focused on it--and i see daily ways in which to let that soak into my body--what a joy!

Seeing divine joy all around me--in the choices i can make--its endless--and its so much fun--what to do in this very breath? in the next breath? we have SO much variety to choose from!

adventure after adventure, on and on to perfect health, wealth, joy....it never ends and its sooo delicious!

enjoy!

what is the most important thing?????

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What puts a smile on your face?

i would wonder...what is the most important thing in your life...?

is it the things you THINK you want and when you get them you will be happy? and because you arent getting them in a timetable that YOU decide on, you are not happy and wondering HOW you attracted these things?

or is it being happy...from one minute to the next...in breathing...in how comfy this chair is--in how good this cup of coffee is? in how wonderful it feels to pet this cat--in how great it is to laugh, stretch, sleep, awaken to a new day?

If i could tell anyone what is the basis for my AMAZINGLY wonderful adventurous, joy filled charmed life it would be that MY direction--what works for ME related to manfiesting is being in the place where i am always grateful and happy--not because i GET stuff when i am in that place--that is only secondary--but because WOW...i am happy!!!! thats the most important thing!

and guess what? you can be happy with little more than the clothes on your back and a smile on your face! you can sit at someones deathbed and be happy--you can sit in a one room apartment and be happy...you can also sit in a 20 room mansion and be miserable...

it is ALL about the process--always has been always will be...if you focus on this BREATH making you happy, not because of what you MIGHT align with but because the BREATH is a joy--you will see a tremendous shift...

this is so key--and it takes many people a LONG time to get it=--this law of attraction is simply not about what you get out of it--its a law that states, you get what you focus on...and abraham, and many other teachers have said FIRST and foremost, follow your BLISS.....

are you doing that? are you SURE its your bliss? deep down in your heart???? or is it something your head thought up? FIND it...and when you do, you will see it has nothing to do with things, or accomplishments...it has everything to do with perspective and attitude!

And when you know that ALL YOU NEED TO BE HAPPY IS YOU...and all you need to be happy is the next thought...its so delicious!!!

Oh, the JOY of surprises!!!

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Surprises make ya jump for joy!!!

Hello fellow roadtrippers...just got back from boston and i wanted to share with you the deliciousness of something my poppi and i love to do--that is surprise our children...it is one of the most delicious things to do--because you have all that fun planning the surprise, you have all that lovely anticipation of the surprise going off as expected-and then you have this HUGE wellspring of happy energy to bask in when the surprise comes off--and then finally the love and gratitude of the person(s) you are surprising...

So...We went to a lovely birthday luncheon for my mother in law--who absolutely LOVED that surprise--(as you can see, the children were focused on surprises already--as they were excited to be a part of their granny's surprise...) but they thought we were driving home that same night--

my poppi and i had other plans--we secured a hotel room in boston and tickets to a red sox game--something the kids love--we have surprised them twice before with tickets, one time being a double surprise where they THOUGHT they were surprising their dad with something, only to find out he was IN on the trick and surprised them with something totally different...but as i said, we had surprised them twice before along the same lines and you would think they would get smart to it and call us on it...

but they dont--and i think thats because they are in alignment with and LOVE and attract these surprises and they want to be AS surprised as we want them to be...

so, it was funny because we DONT go through boston to get home from this trip--but this time we obviously had to, and they didnt notice the situation until we were almost to the exit for fenway park...they had been watching a movie--they questioned the situation then, and poppi said he had taken a wrong turn and could get on the mass pike from local roads--as we passed fenway, with all the crowds of people decked out in red sox garb happily walking to the game, the kids begged, "can we go to the game please!!!" and we said--no, we dont have tickets (you CANT get tickets day of game without knowing the tricks and waiting on line for 4 hours...so, they knew we couldnt go)...they even said--"we are being punished for something!" and literally had tears in their eyes as we passed by the park...

now, with that emotion coming up--we were tempted to tell them then...but decided no--lets play it all the way out--and continued to talk about finding the entrance to the highway--and how we could get tickets another time, but really needed to be HOME tonight...we then turned into the hilton and unwound the window as the bell captain asked us if we were checking in...pete smiled and said yes--and i turned to the girls and said--SURPRISE!!!

they held it in all the way to the room--but as the bellboy closed the door, they let out a huge WHOOOOOOOOOOP and grabbed us both and jumped up and down literally for JOY...and the energy felt so amazing!!!

needless to say, we had a wonderful time--they won the game and everyone was happy as a clam...and so, you see on our life roadtrip we attract adventure, abundance, love, harmony, health and as many surprises as we can get! :)

and it WICKED ROCKS!