On the joys of anticipation....

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When you truly enjoy the waiting...your heart soars!

Ah, the deliciousness of anticipation! Yes, my dear friend, that is the joy of it...
It is never the destination--it is the ride that is the pleasure of this life...the fun planning, imagining, creating, desiring...this is why after the fact--after the trip--after the event--there is a letdown--because the desiring is over in that moment--the event is complete--the thing is there--laying before you...the next logical step has been taken--its here...now WHAT???

When friends ask me why i am not more material in my desires, and focus mostly on experiential things, adventures, etc. I tell them that it is so simple to desire a thing--and manifest it--and then WHAT? where as, for me, with adventures, and trips and suprises, there is so much variation and spontaneousness in what could happen, that it gives another dimension to the journey--the unknown of it is so delicious--the anticipation and the imagining it and the pre-paving it and the intending of it is so much more indulgent and fulfilling to me personally than merely wanting this shiny copper kettle or this new microwave...not that wanting material things arent delicious--they are...but when you get fully into the idea that the CREATING and the MANIFESTING is all about the anticipation, wanting and desire--you wanna play that out to the fullest!

when you can BE, DO, or have anything you desire--when you fully know that what you think about you attract--when you fully know that you are here in the physical as an eternal being and you never get it done, and you cant get it wrong...and you can come here again and again and again...you learn to love that time buffer to manifestation...you truly enjoy that waiting time--knowing full well that what you desire is there for you--its just teasing you--and that feels oooh sooo good!

Enjoy the JOY in the now....making anticipation a treat!

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OH HOW DELICIOUS!!!!

Someone recently asked me about waiting on a manifestation to occur--and how it so frustrated them when they could SEE the manifestation coming together, but it was not there yet...and they realized that they had to do something to make it happen faster, or make the waiting time more pleasant because they had been feeling pretty badly, even though they KNEW they have been magnificent creators, and they were seeing a big manifestation coming down the pike...
This is what i said...

Dont focus on the waiting, because that will only give you more waiting--completely change your focus and almost ignore the manifestation, if waiting cannot be comfortable for you--focus on the JOY--of each individual moment...

just on the joy IN THE NOW...

I am going to give you an analogy...

you order a pizza and you KNOW its coming...

you are waiting--and you are hungry and you are anticipating how its going to taste--unless you are STARVING literally--this period of waiting can be delicious because it is filled with expectation and happy thoughts about a pizza...that YOU KNOW is coming...

but, if you ordered that pizza...and then kept thinking to yourself--god, i hope they dont screw up my order...and forget to put the pizza in--sometimes that has happened tome, andi dont like it--or i hope they dont burn the pizza--i hate it when its over done...or i hope that they dont mess it up and put ancovies on it--cause that will suck--what is taking so long? its only a pizza???


now--both situations, you are waiting for a pizza...in one, you are enjoying the wait--and drawing that pizza to yourself--which you KNOW is coming...

in the other situaiton--you are pushing against that pizza...and it is something that 10 minutes ago was flour dough, cheese, sauce...NOT a pizza--but because YOU asked for a pizza, the universe conspired to use someone and someones facilities to make you that pizza...and here you are pushing against i.t--the .universe do.esnt hear NOT it only hears the tail enders...and so, if you are feeling badly about waiting--or thinking in a worried way while waiting--you confuse the universe, that loves you so much it wants to give you exactly what you want...

a nice pizza--or money in the bank--or a nice red shiny car....

its always been

ask--knowing it is given
allow--knowing it is coming...

:) enjoy--in the now moment....because THAT is all that matters...the things never matter--the JOY is all that matters!